Master Thoth here.
Today we wish to discuss how we choose our parents. You are already aware of children choosing parents and grandparents before their birth. This choosing is done - not concretely but in a loose way about 34 to 36 months in advance. Yes, I understand that logically it does not make sense and you might say, the parents have never even met and are not married yet. The soul looks at a variety of things before it decides where it will be born and to whom. The soul is only interested in having experiences to enrich wisdom and growth. So, it will look for a variety of people and conditions through which it can fulfil its highest potential.
When the soul decides to have a birth on the earth plane, it usually decides about it before three years before it is actually born in a human body. The soul will scout the energies of the place where it will be born, the potential time frame when it will be born (keeping in mind the potential to change the time line because of changing consciousness), to whom it will be born and then again, the potential of the potential father and mother's spiritual growth and frequency. Combined with this, the soul will also look at the potential future of the parents, its grandparents and the country's potential future. The soul will also look at the energies of the siblings it will have and their contracts for life.
One of the principle player in all this the Grand Mother on both sides (potential father's and potential mother's), for almost all the babies born on the earth plane has a special connection to maternal grandmothers. Most of the time, the grandmothers and the baby would have shared many life times together before; on the earth plane and in other planets. The maternal grandmothers hold a very important piece in the baby's birth, for there are codes of energy which the grandmother passes to the baby when the baby is born (whether it is a baby boy or girl).
One of these codes is called Goddess codes (applies to both the boys and girl babies). When this code is transferred to the baby in the early stages (before 3 and half months from the birth date), the child has the highest potential to grow up in a more balanced and harmonious way - especially balanced in the emotional level where there will be compassion, forgiveness, kindness and gentleness and these will become the prime consciousness the baby will have when it grows up. So, it is a very important part in developing a healthy human being.
The grandfather also plays a crucial part in the energy structure of the baby. The grandfather carries a code and it is named Galactic Heritage Code. What this code does is help one remember about one's origin. This code once fully activated with in the baby with in the first seven months after the baby is born has the potential for the baby to develop their quest to find themselves when they move into their adult hood - especially after the 25th year. If the grandmother and the grandfather holds the new born baby close to their heart, the potential for the baby's heart center being opened will be very high. The grandfather's energy also affects the opening of the Resonance Code with in a child - this code helps one to attract what the child needs to know itself, but without going through the difficult and laborious process of difficult karmic lessons.
Now coming to the parents, they have much to offer to the child - not only love and support system, but also opening the various codes and energy structures with in the baby. There is a very important code the Mothers have and it is called Life Code and this is transmitted to the baby best by breast-feeding them. When this code is activated in the baby, the potential to complete the life mission the baby has for that particular life time is greatly enhanced.
Mothers also carry another important code called Terra Code and when this is fully activated, then the baby grows up healthy, grounded and responsible. This code can be activated by the mothers by gently massaging the baby regularly and especially with in the first six months after the baby is born.
Mother's also carry the energy and the code of Warrior and if this code is activated, then the child will grow up respecting, honoring and protecting the other genders. This is activated by gently massaging the belly button of the baby. All these codes to be fully active and functioning, all the activations must be done with in the first 12 months after the baby is born.
Fathers also carry important energy and codes for the wellbeing of the child. One of these is called Hunter's code - and when activated, helps the child to be fearless and explorer of new ideas, new places and new experiences. It will also awaken in the babies courage and faith in themselves. This code is activated by blowing gently into the spinal column and by gently pressing your index finger into the spinal column when you are blowing into that area; This must be done three times daily for a minimum of 9 times for the code to be fully activated.
The other code the father carries is called Lineage Code - which when fully activated, will help the child to be connected to the family emotionally even after the baby grows up and has their own family. The child will be well balanced in all human relationships throughout their lives. This is activated by gently massing the Sternum area of the baby and making a triangle with your fingers on the sternum area after the massage is done. Massage need not be long and it could be short three to five minutes.
The other code the father carries is the code of Divinity and Sacredness. When fully activated in the baby, the baby will grow up knowing the sacredness of life and all of creation - deep appreciation for life and nature and an attitude of thankfulness for all things. This is activated by gently massaging the soles of the feet of both the legs and blowing into that middle of the soul while massaging. This must be done for a minimum of 12 times for 3 to five minutes each and must be done with in the first twelve months of the birth of the baby.
The baby also chooses its name, the month it wants to be born, the placement of moon in its astrological chart, the place where it wants to live (there are at least 12 to 17 places) a soul would choose to live in this present incarnation. The baby also chooses the talents, the gifts which it wants to develop and nurture.
One of the important thing the baby chooses is the guides and support system for the particular life time. As you are aware the guides change as we grow spiritually and in awareness and the baby has already chosen with whom the baby wants to work with when the baby is growing spiritually. Many of the guides the baby will choose will be Masters with whom the baby has worked in other realities and in other life times. Among many guides the baby chooses, there will be one particular guide who will awaken the Freedom Code also called the Ascension Code with in the baby. For this to happen, all the right circumstances must to fall in place and the baby has to raise its vibration to meet the vibrations of this particular master to come through.
Another player the baby chooses before birth is Remembrance brother/sister who will help them when they start growing up - Remembrance of their soul path. These are not biological siblings but are from outside and many a time this will be of the opposite gender. For e.g., for a boy it will be a girl and vice versa.
There are also Animal codes which the baby carries and certain animals can trigger certain memories with in them and help them remember who they are. This is one of the reason, why most of the children love animals and wants to be near the animals even if it happens to be a pet. So, you see dear one, the little ones are Masters in themselves and they have set up a support system for themselves before they are born. But now it might raise the question of a child being in a war-torn place or under other difficult circumstances. Even in these cases, the child has set up a support system for their growth and soul evolution.
Through Rae Chandran